Dear SassyScribe:
I hope you can help me. Last night I dreamed that I was making love to a woman. It was vivid in my mind. I don't know what it means. I am a single woman. I love men I do but this dream has me wondering if maybe I should explore something else. This dream woke me up because I climaxed in my sleep and woke up drenched in my own sweat. It was the hottest dream I have ever had in my 37 years. I don't know what to do. I can't tell my girlfriends because they would think it strange or gay of me to feel like that. I know they would ask question and want to know why I would have a dream like that. I can't explain anything to them because I am struggling to understand it myself. I have always had a slight attraction to women, but I have never acted on it. I never wanted to admit that having sex with a woman turned me on. I am so confused. Am I gay or bi. I don't know. Help me.
Dreaming of Women
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Dear Dreaming:
I wouldn't say that you are gay, bisexual yes, but even to some bisexual is gay. Although I am not a licensed individual to give you a medical diagnosis for your dream, I can say logically, that its natural to have dreams of this nature. Maybe its your subconscious telling you that you want to experiment with women and this is the only way you know how to express yourself. You said yourself that there has always been an attraction to women, so maybe your dream wants to manifest itself to real life. Maybe you really want to do this, but because of the pressures from society and that of family and friends you are holding back. Or maybe, just maybe, its just what it is...a dream.
Some may not agree with me, but I know as a woman the older we get, the more comfortable we are with sex and ourselves. We are not afraid to go and get what we want sexually, and if that means you must experiment, then so be it. Remember no one has to know about this but you. Its your own personal business as to whether or not you choose to move forward or not on this situation.
I say, do what you feel comfortable doing. Will being with another woman appease your curiosity or will it make you ashamed. For some, same sex intimacy is still tabu, but regardless of what I or anyone may say, the final decision is yours.
Don't be ashamed of your dreams for its our subconscious that often reveals our true thoughts and feelings.
I hope this helps you...keep me posted.
SassyScribe
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