Hi Ms. Sassy,
I am a 22yo college student and I have a problem. I am attracted to women. I love the way they look and I am curious to find out how it feels. I have several friends that have experimented with other women, kissing and all, but they say they ain't gay. I don't want to be gay. I like boys and girls, what do I do? Can I be with women and men without being labeled as gay?
Confused in Tuscaloosa
Dear Confused....
It is my belief that people should do what makes them happy. If you are that interested in wanting to be with (nee sleep with) a woman or women then go for it. It makes you at this point bi-curious, however, the term for wanting both men and women is bi-sexuality, which is more accepted in females than in males. What man doesn't want his woman to be bi sexual, it gives him the best of both worlds.
So long as there are two consenting adults I don't see the problem in it. The question is, "Are you ready for the consequences of your actions?" Meaning, it sounds more to me like your worried about what family and friends are going to think. See that is what you didn't say in the letter, its what I see...
Hope this helps.
SassyScribe
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