Dear Sassyscribe,
My husband wants me to have sex with a woman. He said that by doing so, I would not only show him how much I love him, but it would also fulfill his fantasy. We have been married for three years, and I truly love him, but I am not comfortable with another person in our bedroom and I don't want to touch another woman. What should I do? Am I being selfish by not wanting to make my man happy or is he the selfish one?
Undecided in Memphis
Dear Undecided...
I think your husband is incredibly selfish by using this "jedi mind trick" on you. I would like to know if the two of you have even discussed your likes, wants, desires, and needs in the bedroom? Is this the first time he has brought this subject up? If not, then their is a definate need for a discussion. On the flip side, I am all for fulfilling and acting out fantasies so long as the partner is comfortable with whatever that may entail. If both aren't comfortable, how can you both enjoy this rich experience together.
My advice, talk to your husband, tell him how you are feeling and move forward from there. Don't do anything that you are uncomfortable with or that you may live to regret! Ask yourself this..."Can I look myself in the mirror with no regrets and damn the consequences/repercussions?" If the answer is no, then I strongly urge you...NOT TO DO IT!
SassyScribe
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